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Using Visualization To Find Your Center

Source: Marcie Lyons

It’s easy to feel uncentered now in this prolonged time of Coronavirus-19. Perhaps you weren’t so good at feeling balanced even before the virus.

When you feel tense, stressed, unbalanced, off center, out of touch with your real inner self, anxious, worried, overwhelmed or obsessive, you’re unbalanced and not living in your center, where you’re calm and at peace.

Visualization is the process of imagining a relaxing scenario, experience, sensation or image in your mind’s eye. Visualization lets you harness your brain’s positive response to images to help you manage your emotions and life effectively, in a state of ease.

Some other descriptions of the feeling of being centered:

  • Feeling grounded
  • Feeling spacious inside
  • Feeling at ease
  • Feeling balanced
  • Feeling free

As Ram Dass (formerly known as Richard Alpert, a professor at Harvard) famously advised:

“Remember, be here now.”

Being present means you are simply here, now in this moment, instead of being focused on what happened yesterday or what could happen tomorrow. It’s about getting off autopilot and becoming aware of the automatic actions and reactions you are used to and finding a place of clarity and calm.

For several years there was a gallery in my neighborhood called The Time Is Always Now.

Visualizations can help you relax, step outside of the present moment and let go of immediate stress. This isn’t at all the same as being in denial. It’s a way to step back from whatever you experience as stressful to create some wiggle room just to be. Visualization provides a way to cope more easily with life’s challenges and become congruent with your true self.

“Emotions are powerful things. They can be like vortexes, pulling in all of our attention and causing behaviours we can’t seem to stop. The idea is that emotions are connected to our thoughts and collude to dictate our behaviours. A simple example would be the emotion of sadness, which can cause you to think negatively non stop, which can then cause you to constantly overeat or consume too much alcohol in order to escape those thoughts and feel better.” (Jacobson, 2015)

Some things visualizations can help you do:

  • Release stress and worry
  • Ease depression and anxiety
  • Reduce obsessive thinking
  • Improve self-esteem
  • Feel more capable
  • Change bad habits
  • Get motivated
  • Manage anger
  • Manage pain, both physical and emotional
  • Ease PTSD symptoms
  • Stop being so hard on yourself
  • Reduce performance anxiety
  • Let sex be more enjoyable
  • Improve relationships – both your relationship with yourself and with others


Source: Straightfromascientist.com

The Gut-Brain Axis in the body is what allows visualizations in our brain to change what happens in the rest of our body.

“During vertebrate embryonic development a single clump of fetal tissue divides to grow into the gut and the brain. One section becomes the central nervous system (the brain and spinal nerves) while another migrates lower in the body to create the enteric nervous system embedded in the sheaths of tissue lining the esophagus, stomach, small intestine and colon.

“The two separate nervous systems connect via the vagus nerves running from the brain stem into the abdomen. This major trunk line is one of the longest nerves in the body. The gut and the brain are constantly signaling each other, back and forth, along the vagus nerve and also via chemicals released by the gut and transported to the brain. When one brain gets upset, the other becomes upset too. They work in conjunction with each other along the Gut-Brain Axis, each heavily influencing the other.” (Hardin, 2014)

Thoughts happen in the brain. Feelings happen in the gut.


We’ve all had the experience of thinking about something that frightens us and finding our heart beating faster – and perhaps feeling anxiety or panic. This is an example of how our thoughts, via our sympathetic nervous system, trigger a ‘fight or flight’ response.

Visualization is “simply the opposite of this – by thinking of something going well, we can elicit a positive response from our body and lower our stress.” (Jacobson, 2015)

In a study at the University of Miami, after 13 weeks of guided imagery, subjects showed a marked decrease in their cortisol levels, the stress hormone linked to anxiety, depression and fatigue.

“A study at the NC Centre for Stress Management found that using mental imagery with ill patients even resulted in an increase in white blood cells count in every single participant.” (Jacobson, 2015)


One of them says to sit cross legged on the floor. Not necessary. You can sit in a chair or any other comfortable place. You can also recline. – if you can stay awake.


Hardin, J.R. (2013, updated 2014). Our Second Brain – The Gut Mind. See: https://allergiesandyourgut.com/our-second-brain-the-gut-mind/

Jacobson, S. (2015). Guided Visualisation in Therapy – The Benefits Might Surprise You. See: https://www.harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/guided-visualisation-therapy-can-make-feel-better.htmhttps://www.harleytherapy.co.uk/counselling/guided-visualisation-therapy-can-make-feel-better.htm

© Copyright 2020. Joan Rothchild Hardin. All Rights Reserved.

DISCLAIMER:  Nothing on this site or blog is intended to provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

Visualizing Comfort


Visual Comfort -front cover



In case you haven’t come across it yet, here’s something you might find helpful in your personal and professional lives:
An excellent little book by Kristin Prevallet called VISUALIZE COMFORT: PAIN MANAGEMENT AND THE UNCONSCIOUS MIND.
This new book – paperback novel size and only 100 pages (she’s a poet!) – is the best thing I’ve ever read on how to give ourselves comfort from our physical and emotional pain. Very easy to read too. About $10 – it will be worth much more than that to you.
Guided visualizations to accompany the book can also be accessed online.
From the back cover of the book:


Visual Comfort -back cover



A young woman I’ve been working with for several years is in considerable, chronic emotional and physical pain which interferes with every aspect of her life. Although I’ve been talking to her about ways to dissociate from her pain, nothing was really getting through and she continued almost taking pride in how disabled she is. I read her a short section from Kristin’s book and she got it immediately.



Kristin Prevallet
Kristin Prevallet



Kristin Prevallet is an accomplished poet, teacher, and lovely human being. She also does hypnotherapy and neurolinguistic programming (NLP) in her New York City office in Chelsea. I’ve had two very useful private hypnotherapy sessions with her and she came to my Allergies workshop in December.



You can order the book directly from Kristin ($9.99 via PayPal – includes S&H):



It’s available from Amazon ($11.69  and eligible for Prime):


The third choice is to get it as a Kindle eBook from Amazon ($4.98):


If you’d prefer to have the book on CD, send $5.99 for S&H to:

Wide Reality Books

135 West 29th Street – Suite 604

New York, NY 10001


Whichever form you get it, you’ll be glad.









Prevallet, K. (2014). Visualize Comfort: Pain Management and the Unconscious Mind (Book 3, v.1).  Wide Reality Books: NYC.

Prevallet, K. (2013). You, Resourceful: Tap Your Inner Resources to Restore Your Mind and Body (Book 1, v.2).  Wide Reality Books: NYC.

Prevallet, K. (2013). Trance Poetics: Your Writing Mind (Book 2, v.1). Wide Reality Books: NYC.



© Copyright 2014 Joan Rothchild Hardin. All Rights Reserved.


DISCLAIMER:  Nothing on this site or blog is intended to provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.